list of sexual partners

[maxxytoe]

so i was over at my friends house earlier this evening. I don't know how we got onto the topic, but she keeps a list of her 'sexual conquests' in the notes on her iPhone in chronological order
She claims this is normal and everyone has a list
I am confused
Should I have been keeping tabs?

[maxxytoe]

Basically , AIBU to think she's a fucking weirdo ?

[VelmaD]

Depends how old you are.... When I was 15 I had such a list of who I had kissed/ gone to base with, but then I grew up

[StarsInTheNightSky]

Err, nope, can't say that I have a list, does she have that many that she wouldn't remember them otherwise?! Or more to the point, why would you want or need to remember them?! Genuinely curious and not being judged

[Midorichan]

My list is easy, just the two.

[gamerchick]

no that isn't normal.

Mobiles weren't common back in my day but even then i don't think o would have kept a list.

[StarsInTheNightSky]

*judgey that should be.

[crustsaway]

hahaha. I couldn't do that, Ive had too many now I'd love to fast forward 30 years and read it! I wonder if she will keep it up. Maybe she'll expand and make files/sub-files on their prowess etc. gosh the ratings could be endless!

[Sallyingforth]

Does she give them marks out of ten?

[ASettlerOfCatan]

I would be worried if you couldn't remember without a list

[CuppaSarah]

Is this a thing? Does she rate them out of ten too?

[OneDayWhenIGrowUp]

Why ASettlerOfCatan?

[crustsaway]

She's a bit weird but I like her

[OneDayWhenIGrowUp]

Oop pressed send too soon. OP, no everyone doesn't have a list, but I do think YABU to think she's a weirdo. She's hardly hurting anyone by keeping track.

[StarsInTheNightSky]

Maybe she does performance comparison graphs too.

[MrsMarigold]

I think that is a bit off - what would happen if her mobile fell into the wrong hands?

She would be better just think to herself more than The Queen, less than Madonna - well, that is my approach.

[pixiestix]

I would probably have a list if I'd had more than I could remember off the top of my head. I love a good list.

[TinyManticore]

It's not normal after the age of about 17, no. Then it would be more like a snog list than sexual conquests though I suppose.

[mrsdavidbowie]

Blimey I've forgotten a lot of mine.
I'd struggle to make a list

[ThisIsClemFandango]

I accidentally found a 'list' belonging to an old colleague that she had left in a folder at work (used for work). It was titled 'The Real List'.

I had no idea what it was at first but after a few seconds the penny dropped when I recognised a few names of flings and exes she'd had. It was rather long, getting on for 100 names I would guess.

I did find it a bit weird and even weirder that she seemed to carry it around with her especially to work. It's never crossed my mind to keep one!

[EhricLovesTheBhrothers]

I used to have a list, when I reached around 20 and realised I couldn't list them all off the top of my head I made one. I don't know where it is and I no longer attempt to list them all! I don't know exactly what my number is anymore and I'm taking it as a sign of maturity that I don't care.

[lemonade30]

well settler I can't remember all of my conquests.
maybe I should have made a list.

hang on. No, scrap that. Some of them are best forgotten.

should I be worried? If so, why? what fresh hell is about to befall me?!?

[crustsaway]

I totally wished I'd done it now.

What fun it would be to look at my list when Im old, grey and sitting in my rocking chair. Boy would that thing be "rocking" or what!

[SellMySoulForSomeSleep]

I used to have one when i was shagging around in my younger years. :)

I threw it away when I was clearing out. Didn't want the DH finding it as he still doesn't know my number.

I don't think its that odd if you are young free and single. Why not? ;)

[scarletforya]

Ha, no way.

What kind of eejit puts that in writing! Anywhere?!

[maxxytoe]

My favourite part about the list is she has forgotten one of her conquests name and has nicknamed him as 'the one with the curve'