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maxxytoe Sat 27-Jun-15 21:44:01

so i was over at my friends house earlier this evening. I don't know how we got onto the topic, but she keeps a list of her 'sexual conquests' in the notes on her iPhone hmm in chronological order
She claims this is normal and everyone has a list
I am confused
Should I have been keeping tabs? grin

maxxytoe Sat 27-Jun-15 21:44:31

Basically , AIBU to think she's a fucking weirdo ?

VelmaD Sat 27-Jun-15 21:46:05

Depends how old you are.... When I was 15 I had such a list of who I had kissed/ gone to base with, but then I grew up wink

StarsInTheNightSky Sat 27-Jun-15 21:47:01

Err, nope, can't say that I have a list, does she have that many that she wouldn't remember them otherwise?! Or more to the point, why would you want or need to remember them?! Genuinely curious and not being judged grin

Midorichan Sat 27-Jun-15 21:47:08

My list is easy, just the two.

gamerchick Sat 27-Jun-15 21:47:11

no that isn't normal.

Mobiles weren't common back in my day but even then i don't think o would have kept a list.

StarsInTheNightSky Sat 27-Jun-15 21:47:36

*judgey that should be.

crustsaway Sat 27-Jun-15 21:48:03

hahaha. I couldn't do that, Ive had too many now grin I'd love to fast forward 30 years and read it! I wonder if she will keep it up. Maybe she'll expand and make files/sub-files on their prowess etc. gosh the ratings could be endless!

Sallyingforth Sat 27-Jun-15 21:48:09

Does she give them marks out of ten?

ASettlerOfCatan Sat 27-Jun-15 21:48:13

I would be worried if you couldn't remember without a list confused

CuppaSarah Sat 27-Jun-15 21:49:01

Is this a thing? Does she rate them out of ten too?

OneDayWhenIGrowUp Sat 27-Jun-15 21:49:44

Why ASettlerOfCatan?

crustsaway Sat 27-Jun-15 21:49:53

She's a bit weird but I like her grin

OneDayWhenIGrowUp Sat 27-Jun-15 21:51:12

Oop pressed send too soon. OP, no everyone doesn't have a list, but I do think YABU to think she's a weirdo. She's hardly hurting anyone by keeping track.

StarsInTheNightSky Sat 27-Jun-15 21:51:14

Maybe she does performance comparison graphs too.

MrsMarigold Sat 27-Jun-15 21:51:32

I think that is a bit off - what would happen if her mobile fell into the wrong hands?

She would be better just think to herself more than The Queen, less than Madonna - well, that is my approach.

pixiestix Sat 27-Jun-15 21:51:36

I would probably have a list if I'd had more than I could remember off the top of my head. I love a good list.

TinyManticore Sat 27-Jun-15 21:52:29

It's not normal after the age of about 17, no. Then it would be more like a snog list than sexual conquests though I suppose.

mrsdavidbowie Sat 27-Jun-15 21:52:31

Blimey I've forgotten a lot of mine.
I'd struggle to make a list

ThisIsClemFandango Sat 27-Jun-15 21:52:47

I accidentally found a 'list' belonging to an old colleague that she had left in a folder at work (used for work). It was titled 'The Real List'.

I had no idea what it was at first but after a few seconds the penny dropped when I recognised a few names of flings and exes she'd had. It was rather long, getting on for 100 names I would guess.

I did find it a bit weird and even weirder that she seemed to carry it around with her especially to work. It's never crossed my mind to keep one!

EhricLovesTheBhrothers Sat 27-Jun-15 21:52:48

I used to have a list, when I reached around 20 and realised I couldn't list them all off the top of my head I made one. I don't know where it is and I no longer attempt to list them all! I don't know exactly what my number is anymore and I'm taking it as a sign of maturity that I don't care.

lemonade30 Sat 27-Jun-15 21:53:09

well settler I can't remember all of my conquests.
maybe I should have made a list.

hang on. No, scrap that. Some of them are best forgotten.

should I be worried? If so, why? what fresh hell is about to befall me?!?

crustsaway Sat 27-Jun-15 21:53:37

I totally wished I'd done it now.

What fun it would be to look at my list when Im old, grey and sitting in my rocking chair. Boy would that thing be "rocking" or what! grin

SellMySoulForSomeSleep Sat 27-Jun-15 21:54:06

I used to have one when i was shagging around in my younger years. smile

I threw it away when I was clearing out. Didn't want the DH finding it as he still doesn't know my number.

I don't think its that odd if you are young free and single. Why not? ;)

scarletforya Sat 27-Jun-15 21:55:26

Ha, no way.

What kind of eejit puts that in writing! Anywhere?!

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