Am 46 and have recently gone back to work (albeit temporary work) after being a SAHM for 13 years .
Am working in a school and naturally a lot of the staff (though not all) are younger than me. Have no idea how I come across to people but weird to be catapulted into a younger environment. Weird but good. Some people are respectful in the way that people are with older people (which really does make me feel old). Am getting to know people gradually however and I do think that changes things - you kind of stop being seen for the age that you are and become the person you are.
There is a teacher who is at the school two days a week who is lovely - kind / funny. He must be somewhere in his 30s - don't know where - around mid 30s maybe?
Have found myself realising I find him kind of attractive . It's a bit weird to then realise that it is unlikely he would be attracted back as I must be around 9 or 10 years older (roughly - maybe a bit less). It makes me feel sad. Not that I am sitting here pining over this person. It's just the sad thought that the days of being found attractive in that way are over .
So I have been wondering whether sexual attractiveness does have a cut off point? At 46 should I give up on the idea of any man finding me attractive again.
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lifeisstrange · 24/06/2015 23:09
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