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DH seems to be mixed up in something dodgy

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KayAdams Mon 22-Jun-15 23:03:02

I met my husband and he was a really sweet guy. He comes from a very close knit family who are quite harsh and volatile, but he always said he was different from the rest of them and he would never end up like them. We dated for two years but then he disappeared for over a year. I tried to contact him and I knew his family knew where he was but I couldn't get through, no emails, letters, nothing.

Then all of a sudden he reappeared and asked me to marry him. We've been married for 5 years and have two children but over that time he has got more and more involved in his family's business. AIBU to be worried?

His father was shot (but survived), his brother was killed but then his dad died about a year later. Something strange is going on. They say the firm is an olive oil importing company from Italy but I'm not sure I believe them.

His sister's husband has just been killed and she's accusing my DH of killing him. I don't know what to do.

DH is very good looking. And we're rich. Should I just ignore it?

jaynebxl Mon 22-Jun-15 23:04:48

Don't ignore it. I think you should write a book about it.

lougle Mon 22-Jun-15 23:05:19

Mafia, right? grin

gobbynorthernbird Mon 22-Jun-15 23:05:42

I'd keep my DC well away. Especially DD.

Stinkylinky Mon 22-Jun-15 23:06:21


MrsV2012 Mon 22-Jun-15 23:06:38


FarFromAnyRoad Mon 22-Jun-15 23:06:58

I never understand these pretend threads. What's this one meant to be about?

KayAdams Mon 22-Jun-15 23:07:29

Don't even get me started on the horse.

PoorNeglectedBike Mon 22-Jun-15 23:07:32

I think you need to be gutsy and clever and go undercover to find out what's going on. I bet there's a rugged, principled yet fly by the seat of his pants kind of undercover cop who you could probably work with, and maybe even use to replace dodgy dh

bettythebuilder Mon 22-Jun-15 23:08:26

Yes, just ignore it, it'll all be fine. Nothing out of the ordinary there.

lougle Mon 22-Jun-15 23:08:49

The Godfather

PintOfJohnSmiths Mon 22-Jun-15 23:09:01

Kay Adams - The Godfather


ilovesooty Mon 22-Jun-15 23:09:07

Is this supposed to be funny? Is it based on a film or something?

ilovesooty Mon 22-Jun-15 23:09:28

X post. I see.

FarFromAnyRoad Mon 22-Jun-15 23:10:05

I'm wondering that too sooty. Can anyone tell me the point?

AnyFucker Mon 22-Jun-15 23:10:39


DonVitoCorleone Mon 22-Jun-15 23:10:51


KayAdams Mon 22-Jun-15 23:10:51

No, ilovesooty I don't think DH has taken me to the cinema. But we did go to the opera.

FarFromAnyRoad Mon 22-Jun-15 23:11:22

So - err - The Godfather needs rewriting in a parenting website forum style? Ok. Why?

Fatmomma99 Mon 22-Jun-15 23:11:29

sounds like a plucky girl is needed.

MrsV2012 Mon 22-Jun-15 23:11:56

Sounds like a totally normal set up if you're on My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding

FayKnights Mon 22-Jun-15 23:12:10

'Something dodgy' greatest understatement ever! Took me a minute to realise why I recognised your name.

KayAdams Mon 22-Jun-15 23:12:30

Ooops. Rumbled.

DonVitoCorleone I think you and the family are great.

TrollTheRespawnJeremy Mon 22-Jun-15 23:13:04

Take the diamonds and run.

Yellowbird54321 Mon 22-Jun-15 23:13:29

Just find threads like this really boring and pointless tbh. No doubt that won't deter the OP from banging on a bit more, thinking it's ever so amusing.

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