Hi guys, 1st thread, but really stuck... We are going on holiday soon and my inlaws are kindly looking after the house (they stay a few hours away so will actually be staying in house) which they have offered to and we are happy with this as they they did this last year. Now they are asking if some friends can come up and visit for the day, but I'm now being made to feel quite guilty about letting these friends simply stay overnight too....I don't want my home to be used as a guest house and hubby feels I am being quite unreasonable. But I feel if i say yes to this, then it opens the flood gates to let SIL and her hubby and unruly kids up to stay (they tried this last year when our house was in upheaval and I firmly said no!) My point is, we never hear from SIL unless she wants something, she makes no effort to stay with us when we are here and I simply don't want her living in my home when I'm not there. Am I really being unreasonable over this? There are a few more underlying issues which may be affecting my decision, but I would value complete strangers take on this please. TIA.
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