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Teachers presents ....

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hippoherostandinghere · 22/06/2015 20:31

...What do you all do? 2 teachers and 2 TAs here and have no idea what to get for them. I don't want to spend too much as money's a bit tight, I don't want to buy them things they won't like or end up with 28 other things the same.

I'm stressing out about getting it right and I only have till Friday to sort it.

AiBU to wish it wasn't the done thing to get presents?

As an aside I absolutely love both teachers, they have been amazing with both DC, and we will have one again for another year.

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superram · 22/06/2015 20:33

A card and bottle of wine? Mug with their name on- I would love one as mine keeps getting borrowed stolen

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littlejohnnydory · 22/06/2015 20:34

Handmade card and cake from dd here.

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littlejohnnydory · 22/06/2015 20:35

I made a little booklet with ds once about the things he'd enjoyed and remembered at school that year. His teacher was really pleased and it cost nothing.

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SpidySensesAreOff · 22/06/2015 20:36

I got ours these creativefunny.com/shop/necklace/coloured-heart-pencil-crayon-necklace They wear them all the time.

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CrohnicallyAspie · 22/06/2015 20:38

I work in a school, and my favourite presents have been the homemade ones. My absolute favourites were a handmade bracelet in a card with a soppy poem, and a picture made up of lots of words in different colours- it had been created on the computer, printed off and framed.

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derektheladyhamster · 22/06/2015 20:38

Small box of biscuits/chocolates? A picture drawn by your child?

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CrohnicallyAspie · 22/06/2015 20:39

little that sounds lovely and that's the sort of thing that I'd keep for years (and bring out whenever things get tough and I wonder why on earth I do the job)

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hippoherostandinghere · 22/06/2015 20:40

Is a homemade and nicely decorated cake a big no no or acceptable?

Thanks for all the ideas, love the necklace but too late to order anything.

I had thought about those word cloud things Chronically.

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EastMidsMummy · 22/06/2015 20:41

Booze or chocolate, please. Home-made presents go straight in the bon.

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hippoherostandinghere · 22/06/2015 20:43

One teacher is pregnant so no wine there. How would I know what to buy the other? White, red or rose?

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bobajob · 22/06/2015 20:44

I'd just do a nice card, made by/written in by the child.

Booze or useful stationery.

Lots of teachers won't eat home made presents.

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pudcat · 22/06/2015 20:44

I just loved having home made cards. I still have some lovely letters written to me by parents.

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EastMidsMummy · 22/06/2015 20:45

Any kind of wine, thanks. We'll swap it in the staffroom.

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monkeysox · 22/06/2015 20:45

Wine always a winner. Nice bath stuff for pg lady

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CrohnicallyAspie · 22/06/2015 20:45

hippo it really depends on the child. Honestly, does your child remember to wash their hands after the toilet, and cover their mouth when they cough and sneeze? If so a homemade cake will be appreciated.

However, if your child is like mine, and no matter how neat and tidy they may be when they leave the house, within half an hour they have a snot candle approaching their top lip, dribble hanging off their chin, and various stains of dubious origin adorning their top, the cake will be 'saved for later'.

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KateBeckett · 22/06/2015 20:46

The ones I love are the cards with lovely messages, mugs, pictures the kids have made.

But a sincere spoken thank you is worth just as much to me. Or wine Wink

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MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig · 22/06/2015 20:47

Booze or chocolate, please. Home-made presents go straight in the bon.

Really? Charming. I hope you don't work in our school. My cakes always go like, um, hot cakes at the various cake sales and I know the teachers like them because they buy them. Grin

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MrsPeabody · 22/06/2015 20:48

Homemade cards have always been my favourite. Baked goods are a no unfortunately (especially squished cupcakes presented in a sandwich bag from the students pocket!) Grin

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squareheadcut · 22/06/2015 20:48

I've never bought pressies for teachera. A simple thank you for doing their job should suffice.

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GinUpGirl · 22/06/2015 20:49

Can you really blame a teacher for not wanting 30 pieces of homemade tat? Its one thing when you love the kid making it, but 30?

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EastMidsMummy · 22/06/2015 20:50

No, a home-made cake is fine. Much appreciated.

But a home-made trinket, jewellery or picture - sorry, but I'm not going to clutter my house up with parental crafts, thanks.

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HarryLimeFoxtrot · 22/06/2015 20:51

We have an alpha mum who organises a collection, and them gets the teacher something from the whole class. I love her approach Smile

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bobajob · 22/06/2015 20:51

To be honest, I don't think most parents really want presents - obviously booze or something expensive is nice, but 30 trinkets not so much. A card and a genuine thank you is better.

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bobajob · 22/06/2015 20:52

That should be "most teachers" - though most parents probably don't want to do presents either.

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