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to think he should have at least let me know he'd landed?

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januaryblues11 Mon 22-Jun-15 19:32:11

ex h took our 4 yo ds to Gran Canaria on Saturday

januaryblues11 Mon 22-Jun-15 19:34:00

Sorry posted too soon!

he went last Saturday, didn't tell me which flight or hotel he was taking him to, and I haven't heard a thing since. He is due back today but I don't know when. AIBU to think he should have at least let me know that ds is Ok?

flora717 Mon 22-Jun-15 19:45:12

Have you sent a message to clarify?

januaryblues11 Mon 22-Jun-15 19:50:00

yes. he ignored it.

NewFlipFlops Mon 22-Jun-15 19:51:13

Yes. That's awful!

Ohmymg Mon 22-Jun-15 19:52:09

So he's been away over a week and you've not heard a thing?

That's awful, is he always a twat??

januaryblues11 Mon 22-Jun-15 19:58:53

To clarify, ex h and I have a difficult relationship. We supposedly have 50/50 custody but its more like 70/30 because he takes over and keeps ds when he should be with me, saying he is happy where he is, he wants to stay with him etc. we actually have a court hearing shortly.

Ohmymg Mon 22-Jun-15 20:18:16

January I really feel for you, do you have a solicitor?

He's just bullying you into submission by the sounds of things. Can you check arrivals to see if there's a flight landed?

You must be beside yourself

januaryblues11 Mon 22-Jun-15 20:22:07

there doesn't seem to be a matching flight.. There is one that would have arrived a few hours ago but I haven't heard anything, or there's another landing at 1am, but surely that's too late for poor ds? I've text his mum but she's ignored it.

CrystalHaze Mon 22-Jun-15 20:41:00

Text his mother again and say that as you've heard nothing you'll be contacting the police/embassy as you're worried they've been robbed or injured. Bet you hear something then wink

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