may be i'm missing something, so please correct me.
in brief ds1, has aspergers, and resides with gm as he found our busy household stressful, did three years computing at/left college 2 years ago, won't sign on, look for work etc. encouraged to go to a like minded group of young people but has not done this yet. does not follow basic daily care for himself and only is addicted to his laptop and gaming.
gm looks after him and won't take rent for him, he does not have any money coming in but that does not bother him at all.
social services involved to give support to gm and him, i help out with my dh and ds1' siblings getting invoved. SW suggested getting him to sign on a scheme where he would only need to sign on every couple of months, that would be great but he won't sign paper work at gms' let alone go somewhere to do it.
SW took him to his gp to get a sick note, i thought this odd as when i'd spoken to the gp before with my son present about the work situation and this was a new huddle' with his condition the gp laughed and said 'can't give you sick note, aspergers is a condition and plenty of people live relatively normal lives with a bit of help'. i thought right okay, fair enough. so SW takes him and he has been signed off for being 'unfit for work' and an open ended date ! wtf ? does this translate to he'll never work, might work in the future or bugger off i'm due a coffee break ? we want to help but at are a dead end
thanks in advance for any thoughts
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mrsfuzzy · 22/06/2015 13:53
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