[http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3132633/Proud-mother-backs-brave-transgender-9-year-old-son-prepares-school-dressed-girl-wearing-blonde-wig.html?ito=social-facebook article here]
Nail polish has been around for thousands of years, it's only relatively recently become a thing that is seen as female.
Disney princesses for fucks sake. There were not even a thing a hundred years ago. Those women were all still women.
I really don't want to start another transgender debate, what adults do is none of my business, but I do think as a society we need to address the way see gender and children. Unless I am missing it this boy has at no point said he wants breasts or a period or anything that women do actually have.
He likes the fashion and things that are seen as girly and doesn't like sodding football. Neither does most of America. Actually soccer is more of a girl's sport in the states. Maybe all American's are transgender?
Isn't it possible that by making her 9 year old's story public and trying to be so 'right on' that these parents are actually rigidly adhering to a gender binary that says no girl would ever play football and no boy would ever wear a dress? And forcing him to follow a path he might not feel like he can go back on in a few years time?
Should we not just be saying, "yes, ds that is a very nice dress, and here are some glittery shoes to match, but can you please just go tidy your room". And getting the fuck on with it without pigeonholing children?
*(And I'm totally ignoring the dresses, jewelry, tights and high heels worn in the past by men when they were considered male fashion)
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To think none of these things are "girly"?
83 replies
AlltheWhile · 21/06/2015 14:36
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.