I am fully prepared to be told I am irrational and unreasonable, and to save a drip feed I'm going to say now I'm 39 weeks pregnant and fed up!
BUT my issue is with mothers/fathers day. Father's day tomorrow and instead of arranging something nice to do with dh and dc we have to go visiting my DP and PIL. It is my DH fathers day too, why to we have to be the ones to get off our arses get in the car and do the trips to everyone else. We have to be the ones to visit ALL THE TIME anyway. I mentioned to my DM that we'd visit my DF today as we might be doing something ourselves tomorrow and I got the guilt trip 'oh does that mean he won't see the dc on fathers day, he was really looking forward to it'. Likewise when it comes to mothers day, if we're not out to see her or make plans to see her I get guilt tripped. I don't have any particular feelings towards mothers day for myself, a card, bunch of flowers and a hug is all I need but this year I found myself traipsing around shops and spending nearly 200 on her because she expects it.
Sorry that turned into more of a rant than I had planned. So AIBU and should I just suck it up?
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Anydrinkwilldo · 20/06/2015 11:05
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