I warn everyone, this is going to be a really grumpy post but Ffs !! Dsc's here for weekend, both teenagers.. Both have own rooms, TV/tablets etc, but by 6:50 one had already been in our room (woken me up) to tell us he is making a cake for Father's Day, closely followed by the other who 'just wanted to ask daddy if he would take her into town to get something she needs.. ' the bloody shops wouldn't have opened for another 2 hrs ! I don't know why it's wound me up so much this morning, they have always been like it - I suppose it's partly because it's behaviour that I hoped they would grow out of over the last 10yrs and partly because of the complete blinkered attitude they both have. Not once do they consider that my other 2 dscs and 3 dcs (all late teens who live with us full time when not at Uni) are still asleep. This morning they have crashed around the house turning on food mixers, slammed doors, shouted at each other...etc etc . This behaviour has become so annoying to myself and the others that they have all started staying over with various friends when these two visit. Which is polarising the family into DH, me and older 5 for ten days a fortnight, and DH/me plus non resident 2 dcs for two days.. We had a family birthday last night so all stayed here - but the shouting and complaints are coming thick and fast this morning, it's like they do it on purpose. No one but me remonstrates with DH as these two can do no wrong and are just 'getting on with the day' whereas myself and dcs/dscs are just slugabeds.. Wasting our lives away.. ( I work full time m-f and am up at 5:30 am every work day) AIBU to think that 13/14 yr olds should be more than capable of staying in their rooms until at least 8:30 and then showing some kind of consideration until the rest of the household is awake. ?
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