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First up, I must say I'm not passing the buck. DD (13) is in a lot of trouble. She lied to us and did something she was expressly forbidden to do. DH and I (and her friends' parents) are dealing with them.
We had a music festival here this weekend. We sometimes go as a family, but this year decided, for various reasons, not to go. Lots of DD's school friends were going and she had been asking if she could go to but we said no. We weren't happy with DD being there without us. We didn't have tickets so if anything happened we couldn't get in to get to her and according to the festival's website unaccompanied children are not allowed in anyway. I also just don't think that a music festival is a safe or appropriate place for an unaccompanied 13 year old
So, Saturday she asks if she can stay over at her best friend's house. I knew her BF wasn't going to the festival either, checked it was OK with BF's mum (who is also a friend of mine) and dropped her off there in the afternoon, had a cup of tea, arranged to pick her up the next day. That's was that.
Until 9pm. I get a phone call from BF's mum. DD and BF and another friend had got some children's festival wristbands and had gone in (DD and BF had lied to BF's mum that they were going to the other friend's house).
Now, obviously the girls are in big trouble, however, I'm also annoyed that they were let into the festival in the first place.
They had children's wristbands (free) which are for 12s and under and it states on the festival website that unaccompanied under 17s will not be allowed into the site. There are also Teen wristbands which are for 13-17 year olds.
The girls are 13 and 14, clearly nowhere near 17 but older than 12, but even if the security at the gate weren't sure about their ages, they were wearing children's wrist bands. They should have had their bands removed and sent on their way.
Now, kids try and sneak in there every year, always do, always will, but AIBU to think the security on the gate should be following their own rules? The wrist bands are quite clearly children's, nothing like the adult ones. They have a little chip in and each band is scanned when you go in and it flashes up on the scanner screen that it is a child's band, so there would have been no hiding the fact that they were children's bands and shouldn't have been allowed in
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Alloalloallo · 15/06/2015 09:42
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