I live in a shared house with my DH and two DC. It's shared with DH Great uncle who is in his late 80's , it's rather awkward. We moved in with uncle to keep an eye on him and because the house needs some TLC. (It's a grade 1 listed old heap!) I am at a loss and feel stuck. I love my DH very much but his parents are driving me insane!
The PIL live only a short distance away and MIL visits uncle often but has her own keys. When MIL or FIL visit they let themselves in, they could ring door bell and uncle or myself or DH could let them in but they use their keys then leave door wide open and don't lock it when they leave.
The PIL have no respect for uncle or us. I have asked DH to speak with his parents but he can't see the problem. I don't like the fact that I never know who's in the house! So many people have keys! PIL, Uncles cleaner, various other relatives, also a string of random careers have also had access to the house when uncle had a knee operation and needed help whilst recovering.
Also great uncle lets anyone in and sends them through to our part of the house without knowing who they are! I have tried to explain that they need to come round to our front door or make them sit on the door step. No great uncle invites them in to sit on sofa whilst comes to find us! So unsafe!
I have fitted a lock and alarm to our dinning room that leads to kitchen
So I know if someone comes in via the back of the house. I don't feel safe and I don't feel it's safe for the children either.
Please any advise would be marvellous.
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Help - PIL no manners or common sense
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GoldenBubble87 · 14/06/2015 21:49
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