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My boyfriend points out "hot' women.

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Baileyboo15 Sat 13-Jun-15 22:56:28

Been with DP for 18 months. We are best friends, and always had a jokey relationship.

At first he started pointing out women in country gear, tweed ECT.

And now it's any red heads.. Especially if they have a fringe.

Aibu to start doing the same to him?

Samcro Sat 13-Jun-15 22:57:22

yep\make sure they are all really nerdy though, just for fun

Klayden Sat 13-Jun-15 22:59:07

YABU. Instead you should agree with him; "oh yes, she is one hot piece of arse!" That'll confuse the bugger. wink

Roobix04 Sat 13-Jun-15 22:59:43

Me and my dp point out hot women to each other. I also point out good looking men.
But if it bothered either one of us then we wouldn't.

Gruntfuttock Sat 13-Jun-15 23:09:10

"Aibu to start doing the same to him?"

Don't do the same to him!

Point out hot men instead. wink

ImperialBlether Sat 13-Jun-15 23:11:07

Or just say, "But she wouldn't be interested in you" every time he does it.

AmyElliotDunne Sat 13-Jun-15 23:12:13

I'd fuck with him by pointing out really unattractive people, preferably who look nothing like him, and say how they are soooo hot, just your type etc. so that he questions why you find him attractive if your taste is so odd!

andyourlittledogtoo Sat 13-Jun-15 23:17:47



Imustgodowntotheseaagain Sat 13-Jun-15 23:33:16

He's a cunt. Bin him.

MsRaspberryJam Sat 13-Jun-15 23:43:09

Depends entirely on how it makes you feel. If you have always received such comments before with apparent good humour, he may think you don't mind. Some couples don't mind this sort of thing. But if you have said you prefer that he pipes down and he persists, he's a twat.

It can be done innocently, or it can be done to belittle someone and make them feel bad about themselves.

NewFlipFlops Sat 13-Jun-15 23:43:38

Tell him you're not a bloke.

whitecandles Sun 14-Jun-15 04:34:06

Depends. Me and my bf both point out attractive people to each other. Not a problem for us but if either of us didn't like it, we'd stop.

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