I am a SP with 3 DS aged 6, 9 and 10. I moved 200 miles away from all my family with my boys 3 years ago as I got a place in a very competitive training scheme which involved working full time, completing a part time masters and completing a work based training portfolio.
I am now at the end of the 3 years and recently got a job offer back home near all my family so will hopefully find working and taking care of my DSs much easier. The job is dependent on me becoming qualified and passing all components of my training (I have already passed the Msc).im really struggling to cope with everything and had a breakdown last night about it all. My mum (who lives back home) has offered to look after my boys until my exams are over in 4 weeks time and they will start immediately at their new school on Monday of they leave this weekend.
I am so torn as to what I should do as on the one hand, they boys moving in with my mum temporarily will give me time to revise and complete the portfolio after work as at the moment I massively struggle to do anything once they are home from school. On the other hand, I feel awful changing their school at such short notice and they are already upset about leaving their friends behind so I know they will find leaving at short notice even more difficult.
I'm worried that if they stay with me then I risk failing everything and losing all the work I have put in over the last three years, which would also result in me losing my new job(I am the sole financial provider so would be screwed).
Honest opinions please, am I being selfish or practical by moving them to my mums in the short term. I feel horribly guilty and I know I will miss them terribly. The thought of it makes me want to just quit everything but then I'll be jobless!! I need to make a decision by today
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Jaffacakesaremyfave · 11/06/2015 17:36
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