Hi all
I returned from mat leave 1/2 a year ago on 4 day week. Rest of my team are not parents, so returned determined to make my 4day week work and prove I'm not taking the piss milking being a parent and still do my job. I barely mention my DD (my senior colleagues never ask anything about her), am in on time and barely ever ill, compared to a lot of them. When I returned to work, I was just told that despite being on trial for 4 day week flexi-time based on my original role fitting into 4 days, I was to be given substantial, say 30% extra duties- that said woman's own PA was meant to be doing, but PA cleverly used my mat leave to wrangle herself out of doing this and land it on me. I accepted it, as I had to make my job work.
All ok generally, but said woman can call me up over the smallest mistakes, in front of everyone, is very direct/verging on rude in communication (to others, not just me) and has never ever shown appreciation or even recognition of fact Im doing previously 2 peoples jobs in 1- and on a reduced week with reduced salary. Last week when was pulled up for a (small) error again, I apologised but its been hanging over me, especially as she and another senior colleague are often huddled hushed talking and when I approach separate and stop talking, clearly talking about me. Last week another colleague admitted she'd heard them "bitching" about me.
I don't want this hanging over me anymore. AIBU to take her aside, calmly and as friendly as possible (in other ways we can get on, though very different people) and just explain I feel all the good I do in my role is just accepted (never any real appreciation) and never seen given my type of role, but then the smallest error happens and its as if its a crisis, when given the quantity of things what my job involves and juggling act of my role, its a tiny proportion of glitches in the scheme of things. Also I'd just appreciate a little more recognition of the fact I took on her load without any complaint, am doing my best but just recognise I am doing what was 2 peoples jobs and on 4 day week. I also want to say that even someone else heard them bitching about me, and i feel paranoid about he atmosphere and would prefer things handled calmly and to my face?
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To take colleague at work aside & let it all out
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Scattymere · 07/06/2015 14:43
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