Just visited a children's centre stay and play with my 6 mo baby and older child. Thought it would be lots of fun for them and I might get an adult chat too. No one even said hello until the last bit where you sit and have a snack. Neither other mums or the staff. Also not clear who where staff. First thing anyone said was at tidy up time when a lady staff member said 'next time bring a mat out for baby, she shouldn't be on the hard floor. I wouldn't like to be lying on the hard floor'. I had bought her out to be with my older child and she was fine. She'd let me know if she wasn't! Then as we left another member of staff said 'that's right get home and get some shorts on child, it's hot today!' So I left feeling crap basically.
I am an educated mum and am confident my kids are fine, but what if you were less confident or had depression. I also wonder a bit as it's near a large fairly deprived estate, if the staff assume all the mums are uneducated and bad mums and are more patronising that staff at centres in nicer areas. Which is a horrible attitude.
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Vijac · 05/06/2015 16:32
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