I see lots of threads on here discussing helping friends as they have a baby and how difficult things will be, how tired you'll be, how there will be no time for yourself etc etc
DS is 2 now and it's 10 times harder to cope with him than a baby, he's exhausting.
Newborns sleep loads so we could cook, clean, even sneak in some nookie, watch films, he was easy to take out and about so essentially life wasn't made much more difficult by his arrival but now the house looks like a hovel, we rarely manage more than 1 meal a day and our sex life is non existant. Doing anything takes military precision planning and many things are prevented by his need to run constantly.
aibu to miss the ease of the early days and to think perhaps we're told it's tough so it'll seem easier?
I know all children are different but please someone let me know you too feel it just gets harder as they get older (and someone please promise me there's a point before 30 where it will get easier )
Maybe it's the fact I'm still recovering from his birth that makes it harder, I really am sure he's a fairly average toddler, but I'm knackered!
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To think the newborn stage is a breeze?
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Szeli · 05/06/2015 13:57
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