I am really struggling in the mornings to stay calm.
I'm a recently single parent to a 6 and 3 yo. Every morning I promise myself I will not lose my temper and shout. Every morning I fail.
I find my 6yo particularly provoking. She refuses to get out of bed, messes about when she should be getting dressed, is nasty to the 3yo, argues and whines. Sometimes she isn't like this but mostly she is.
I suspect she is tired due to going to sleep too late - an issue I need to work on.
I need to calm things right down in the mornings though, and I'm afraid that starts with me. I react badly and quickly - I just don't seem to have any patience. And of course I escalate the situation by losing my rag.
I was thinking of trying a reward chart, specifically for how we all behave in the mornings, with a target for each one of us - e.g the 6yo 'do what mum asks the first time of asking', the 3 yo 'be kind to everyone' and for me, 'keep a calm voice'.
Is that OK, do you think? Or should reward charts only be for DC?
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dinoswore · 05/06/2015 13:17
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