Dp's son is almost 20 years old yet dp still expects him to visit us and stay over every Saturday night as per the plan when he was a child. He is normally compliant with this, being picked up with his younger brother every weekend but it's so ridiculous I feel for the kid. He has no friends, no 'out of the house' activities so just sits in his room every Saturday night. Sometimes he makes an excuse and doesn't come but dp doesn't like it.
This past week dp has been hounding the lad with Facebook messages. "How's it going son?" "How's things buddy?" "How's the uni application going son?" "Are you thinking of not going to uni now buddy?" Etc etc. none of which the lad has replied to. Ffs I would have hated to have such a clingy parent at that age!! Anyway last night after a string of ignored messages dp sent the following "you chat to your mother all the time yet I have to wait ages for a reply :-(". Ffs. The poor kid is treated like a small child. I've tried talking to DP about maybe relaxing and letting the lad grow up but he just gets defensive and says I don't know his kids so shouldn't have an opinion. Aibu to think last nights message about the mother was out of order, ridiculous and bloody childish?
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To think Dp is being unreasonable regarding his son?
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CaleseFletch · 04/06/2015 07:46
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