My husband is currently away for six months with work and I am pregnant with our first. He was worried about me being at home by myself so I invited a friend to stay who was currently living at home. I'm known my friend since high school and thought it would be nice to have the company.
When she first moved it I showed her where everything was and mentioned to help herself to things in the cupboards and how the washing machine worked etc. she would often do washing up in the evenings and occassionaly Hoover.
I wouldn't expect a houseguest to do a huge amount and I wouldn't say I was precious about my home (I have a dog that sheds everywhere) however I feel like my friend has reverted back to her teenage years.
On the side of the sofa she sits on in the evening there are currently 3 glasses, a packet of empty crisps, a packet of half eaten crisps, empty coke bottle and other rubbish. In her bedroom there are empty glasses and random piles of clothes dumped everywhere. Tissues and make up wipes all over the floor even though there is a bin in her bedroom and the bathroom.
When it comes to her clothes washing she tends to dump about two weeks worth at a time in the basket at once.
I've had a stressful few weeks so I'm not sure if I'm bu and am just being sensitive but surely I'm not her mother and expected to clean up after her?
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Clairejessica123 · 02/06/2015 17:46
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