It was DS's 4th birthday party today, I invited the children from his pre-school who I know are going to his infants school to say hi and hopefully build some relationships with the parents.
One little girl turned up, her Dad shook my hand and then said "you'll be overrun here, I'll leave her and pick her up later. What time?"
I was quite shocked (she's 4, maybe even 3) and said "will she be ok?" and he almost laughed and said "of course, she'll be fine. Here's my number if you need me" and left me his business card.
It was a hectic party, with around 40 adults and 20 children. My husband was on garden duty and was keeping an eye on here but after about half an hour I saw the little girl by the bouncy castle looking a bit lost. I asked her if she was ok and she shook her head but couldn't reply. I took her inside and went through the usual things, loo, drink, food and then said "shall I phone Daddy?" and she nodded.
Phoned him, he was clearly put out but came back about another half hour later all the time my niece had to babysit her as frankly I was so busy I couldn't. Poor little love she was so scared.
Dad never acknowledged it or apologised, did stay but was very rude. At one point when we were doing the cake the little girl sidled up my my husband and sat on his knee even though she doesn't know him from Adam, and her Dad was right there!
To be clear, I'd never met the parent or child before.
Who actually does that?! Or are we being weird.....?
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ExitStageLeft · 31/05/2015 22:11
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31/05/2015 23:35
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