OK, so this happened a few weeks ago, but it is still bothering me in a way I can't explain. I don't lay awake at night or anything, but still...
I was in the kitchen about 6pm carving a chicken. My kitchen is at the front of the house, so people going past can see me if I am in there.
I was aware of my cat outside the front door, wanting to come in. He was mewing from time to time but not excessively or desperately pleading , but I wanted to get the chicken carved and away before I let him. He probably would have had to wait another 15 minutes. It wasn't cold or raining.
Anyway a lady with a little girl, who looked to be aged about 6 or 7 knocked at the door. Of course as soon as I opened it, the cat ran in (heady with the scent of chicken no doubt). The lady said that she had been going past and saw that my cat wanted to come in, and could I please let him in as it was upsetting her daughter to hear him mew.
I had no idea what to say, so just thanked her () and shut the door.
She was not a neighbour, I had not seen her before, or since. But I guess I am really surprised that she would even do that. My cat had only been out there a little while but she obviously thought I was cruel leaving him there at all.
I have much bigger problems in my life than this, but this still bothers me.
Was IBU leaving the cat out whilst I carved a chicken, or was she BU to knock my door and to let him in so her daughter was not upset?
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GertyD · 30/05/2015 20:27
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