DP is very sensible and likes to live life by the rules. I prefer to live day to day and make the most of each one. For example: last year he was here when we got the first snow of the year just before bedtime. The dc were super excited but he told them to calm down and go to bed. This year when the snow first came just before bedtime he wasn't here and the kids and I put our wellies over our pj's and had a fab time.
This week it's been sunny here so I've ignored the ironing and the dc and I have been out playing all day everyday. Yesterday we finished dinner and he started telling them to calm down etc but it was a lovely evening so I suggested the park so they could run off some steam. He huffed and puffed and it was like he was the tired grumpy toddler of the bunch.
I like the kids having great days everyday but he says he finds it too exhausting and pretty much said I make him sick because I always have time/energy for them. I also have time for him but he falls asleep by 10 despite doing about a tenth of what I do during the day. Aibu to want to live life without constraints?
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AlmondAmy · 22/05/2015 23:31
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