A friend and I have drinks and 'nibbles' at mine a couple of times a month in the evening to catch up. It's only about 2-3 hours, not an all nighter. I'm also friends with her DH though not as close. Sometimes she buys, sometimes I do.
She's also having troubles with her DH and they're on the verge of splitting. Trying to work things out for the kids. Failing miserably if I'm honest. I've lost a lot of respect for her DH though have stayed uninvolved...it's their relationship, not mine.
Tonight is supposed to be a drinks night. I bought the things this time. But her DH, knowing she's supposed to be coming over, has decided not to come home again. He does this frequently if she's supposed to be going out...it stops her from being able to leave because their DC are in bed. I can't go to her because DD is asleep.
We both know exactly where he is. He's only a matter of streets away.
He's done this 5 times so far and 4 were on nights where I've been paying. I feel like I'm wasting money frequently because he doesn't want her to have a life.
I want to stay uninvolved. I genuinely do. It's all very messy but I've managed to so far. But honestly, I'm sick of spending money only for him to decide she's stuck at home. I'm not very well off at all...these are my treat nights. We buy treat foods that I never get through in time on my own so I end up throwing loads of the food away.
It would be really unreasonable for me to say something to him, wouldn't it? I see him several times a day most days...And every bloody time I see him I get a little bit more annoyed because I know she's looking after their DC all day again. But wasting my money yet again has really annoyed me
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CupidStuntSurvivor · 16/05/2015 21:03
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