That sounds really harsh, but I'm only 34, and feel like I have been more grown up than them since I was a kid.
My dad was an alcoholic and insisted that life was only good if you won the lottery, I spent most of my teens and 20s convincing him to eat properly, drink less, pay his bills and not punch people (including us).
He died 5 years ago and I have so much guilt at not saving him, but am also angry of course.
My mum had divorced him long before so had nothing to do with him. She had a little "second youth" and went to uni and got a life and didn't want me messing that up after I left uni so I moved somewhere else. She has always been more like a sister. Which I've always thought was cool, but now I'm older I am getting tired of being the sensible one and clearing up her mess...
She is always in debt and uses credit cards because "she has no cash" but buys things she doesn't need. I know what it's like because I'm struggling cash wise too but she won't listen to reason, she assumes because she is older she is wiser. I'm angry today as she moans she wants to see my daughter but isn't willing to drive because petrol costs too much, but she is happy to buy a new puppy(??!!) which she can't afford to look after and even though it's just her and her partner living together insists they need to buy a new 3 bed house and need this that and the other and it's driving me mad.
I know things will only get worse as she gets older as she already has poor health, I just feel like I've been looking after my parents my whole life,
I'm so tired of biting my tongue! Sorry, that was a total rant.
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NicLovesCheese · 15/05/2015 11:08
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