Hi,I've NC for this.
I'm pregnant with my first and in quite a bit of financial trouble at the minute, no job, very little income, no place to rent or anything (but thankfully my best friend of 13yrs has a spare room which is indefinitely mine so I'm not on the streets) I won't go into too much detail but I will cope just its hard but I can make ends meet. this has lead me to join a few freecycle/charity groups that are local (both online and running from community centres etc) i'm fortunate to live within a very tight knit community. Yesterday a woman in one of these groups offered me a baby bath seat, a baby seat (Not sure what they're properly called but they are metal with a fabric and straps that the baby sits in) and a load of baby/maternity clothes, My best friend and I went to collect these items and the baby bath seat was totally unusable (only one of the four suction cups was still attached, which I think could be dangerous if it came unstuck with bubs in it) the baby seat was absolutely filthy, covered in food stains, cat hair, dirt and dust. the cover is removable so can be washed (and I have since washed it) some of the clothes are ripped, very very badly stained and a few are just dirty (very obviously no attempt has been made to wash them). ive got about half of the stuff through the wash already and looking at what I have I can make use of about half of the items once its had a good clean, I'm not sure if its my situation or the hormones but I'm quite upset that someone would think this is decent condition to hand stuff over in? don't get me wrong, I'm very grateful for the help i have received through these groups (even if no one can give "stuff" there is always sympathy and a shoulder to cry on and i try to do the same for others) I just feel its quite... mean? to do this to someone, AIBU? A wash wouldn't have been hard, surely? I always wash everything before I give it away or to charity. i didn't expect sparkling clean brand new, useable and in semi decent condition was my expectation
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AIBU?
To find this a bit upsetting/offensive (Re- freecycling/charity)
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InThisMoment95 · 14/05/2015 13:33
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