I see that people often declare when they have changed their regular names, so I will do so and hope that I can put this down and capture my exact thoughts in what is second language.
My husband's child was admitted to hospital for observations and a few days prior to that my father was killed in unrest in my home country. I left for home that same day. Last week Wednesday, my step child was discharged and parents were reassured he should be better for school in a day or 2. Husband then flew to join me later that evening, I was relieved to see him as I am an only child and was mostly on my own preparing for the funeral and my mother was adviced to rest for her state of mind and extended family is scattered around the world and could not make it. We buried my father on Saturday. Husband flew back on Sunday evening and landed on Monday morning to an email from his ex spelling out exactly what she thinks of him. She accuses him of being a "poor and excuse of a father to son" to place wife's needs above his son's health because he left before he went back to school. I arrived back yesterday and accidentally saw this email as I was on his laptop last night. I am not in the habit of discussing his ex with him, so I need another opinion of my feelings about step families.
Am I unreasonable to think that given step child had improved, it was right of husband to support me in grief?
Am I unreasonable to think that at times, step children will take second priority to wives(i use the female example because I am one) not necessarily because they come second but because in step families circumstances are weighted and balance is always sought?
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AIBU?
AIBU to think that the ex is regarding dh's support during my father's death?
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Ithadtobeisalie · 14/05/2015 12:27
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