Bit of a complicated scenario, sorry....I've been living abroad for most of my maternity leave with DS2, and we're about to return to the UK. DH and I have resolved to move abroad again some time this year, after I have worked off my maternity leave in my current job (I have to stay a minimum of 3 months). The aim is to find a better quality of life for less money than we need in the UK, to allow DH to pursue his life dream of becoming a professional musician, and me to find an alternative career from my present job, which I do not love. The idea is that I will do TEFL to begin with, and I'm studying for a qualification in that at the moment.
The issue we cannot agree on is the timing. DH wants us to take a short term let for the required 3 months, and then disappear again at the first opportunity. The trouble with this plan is that short term lets are extremely expensive, and should I need any longer than 3 months to find a TEFL job abroad, prohibitively so. It would be cheaper for us to take a normal 6 month let and then move, probably after Xmas to avoid having to fly back for the seasonal round of family visits etc. This is my preferred option.
DH fully acknowledges that his plan is going to be more expensive (around 2K so best scenario), but as he puts it, it's not worth putting our lives on hold just for the sake of money. I think that 3 months is only time, 2k is 2k and he's just being impractical and a bit naive to think it doesn't matter. Needless to say we are currently sitting in separate rooms sulking at each other. AIBU??
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ClodiaF · 06/05/2015 21:11
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