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AIBU?

To be slightly sad that ds is so tall?

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Wideeyedcarrrot · 03/05/2015 23:11

Ds is 5 and 10 months and currently in age 8 trousers and age 8-9 tops. He's 134cm and has been tall since he was born. Shoe size is now a 1 and a half.
His dad is 6 foot 5 and his grandads are both over 6 foot. His uncles are all 6 foot 5 or 6 foot 4 so I guess he was ever likely to be tall which is nice but I wish he'd slow down a bit. Firstly because it's more expensive to buy larger clothes but secondly and mainly because we are now pushed into the older boys' sections and I've had no time at all in the cuter younger boys' sections! Most of the younger styles stop at 6. Ds was wearing age 6 when he was 4 so effectively he's been two years ahead for a while.

I know his growth will slow down and level out but in Next today I was looking at the nicer stuff he could have if he was in a 5-6 rather than an 8-9. Maybe not nicer, more she appropriate perhaps. Younger styles.

I cannot do much about it I appreciate but I still feel slightly disgruntled every time I go clothes shopping!

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Bonsoir · 03/05/2015 23:16

Try Zara Kids - they have several ranges including quite traditional looks that still go up to age 13/14.

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Scholes34 · 03/05/2015 23:16

Remember, 8-9 year olds look cute when your DS is 16.

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Annunziata · 03/05/2015 23:17

YABU.

Wait until you get teenage cuddles from this big lanky boy towering above you. They're great :)

He's perfect just the way he is.

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WorraLiberty · 03/05/2015 23:17

My niece has a very tall son too, but her problem is getting trousers to fit around her son's waist.

He's always needed 2 ages above for the length, but there's too much material around the waist for even a belt to cope with.

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Wideeyedcarrrot · 03/05/2015 23:18

Yes we have trouble with that too.

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Only1scoop · 03/05/2015 23:29

Dd always followed 99th percentile is almost 5 and towers above her classmates. To get length in clothes they are always baggy as she is very slim. Dp is 6'5" so she is taking after him.

Do get a bit Hmm when people presume she's about 7

She's just perfect Smile

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Scholes34 · 03/05/2015 23:29

Next and Gap seem to cater for tall, skinny children.

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ShouldIworryornothelp · 03/05/2015 23:53

Try having tall girls. My 10 year old is in adult size 4 jeans with a 29" inside leg. Shock

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ouryve · 03/05/2015 23:55

Look at Landsend if you want lovely straightorward stuff for older boys that isn't all skulls and monkeys. It's excellent quality, as well, (and now that DS1 is in Next 13s, much, much cheaper, as the prices don't shoot up every few sizes)

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QOD · 03/05/2015 23:56

Dd was 98th centile for height until about 11.
Tallest girl at primary. At age 2 1/2 she was 3ft so predicted 6footer.
Nope. She's barely 5ft 5 and size 4.5 feet

Weird innit

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pregnantpause · 03/05/2015 23:58

I hate to be sexist but it's worse when it's a dd who's too tall. Boys fashion stops being cute and young but still stays appropriate for age. Girls it's a struggle to find appropriate clothing for young teen girls that isn't sexualised let alone your 7 year old in 10 year old clothingConfused .

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Pico2 · 03/05/2015 23:58

I was a bit sad to find that the Next younger girls range only goes up to 5-6 and seemed only to be stocked up to 4-5 in the shop I looked in. DD is 4 and the Peppa Pig pyjamas in the smaller range are far more appropriate than the One Direction ones in the older range. Next seems to be the first shop I've had this problem with.

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rebelfor · 03/05/2015 23:59

ShouldIworryornothelp Agree with that, my 10 year old is in size 3 shoes, a lot of the clothes and shoes which fit her are for older girls.

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ShouldIworryornothelp · 03/05/2015 23:59

I agree with that pregnant

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ouryve · 03/05/2015 23:59

We have the trouser size dichotomy with DS1, Worra (That's probably a Big Bang Theory episode). He's both quite (not exceptionally) tall at 11, but quite skinny, often getting very skinny after a period of heavily disordered eating or a growth spurt. He's currently in fairly slim fitting joggers that are a wee bit too short and skinny turn up chinos with the turns ups turned down for length and the elastic bunched in as far as possible so they don't keep falling down.

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ShouldIworryornothelp · 04/05/2015 00:00

rebel at a size 4 we find hush puppies are still fairly age appropriate for shoes. Pricy though

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ouryve · 04/05/2015 00:01

Oh - and Next do seem to win for lanky kids, particularly because their returns are so easy! Landsend are crap for that.

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ShouldIworryornothelp · 04/05/2015 00:03

Next are crap we've found the girls stuff is more for the larger in all areas child. H&M is a favourite for us.

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SilverBirch2015 · 04/05/2015 00:10

If it's any consolation, I've heard taller children statistically achieve more academically. It's partly because other adults and teachers subconsciously treat them as older and more responsible, and they learn to to respond to that expectation.

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thetroubleis · 04/05/2015 00:11

DD is a shoe size 2, not quite sure how tall she is exactly, but I'd guess about 134cm ish. Also her hands are as big as mine, my fingers don't meet my thumb any more when I hold them Sad

She's 6 (seven soon tbf) and trousers are a nightmare- long enough in the leg means falling down at the waist! I usually buy her pinafores for school and dart them under the arms.

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MinionDave · 04/05/2015 00:31

My DS is nearly 10 and wears 13/14 clothing. He is 5ft tall and in size 5 shoes, will be annoying when he goes up another size and I'll have to pay the full adult price for shoes then Hmm

DD in the other hand has just turned 9 and is the complete opposite, she is 132cms and size 13 feet so a petite wee thing. Funny how siblings can be so different.

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SorchaN · 04/05/2015 00:44

I can sympathise. My 10 year-old son is wearing men's size small, or even a medium. My teenage daughter has size ten feet and can't easily buy fashionable girls' shoes. Both my husband and I are above the 99th centile for height, so it's not unexpected, but still challenging to keep everyone in clothes.

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Singleandproud · 04/05/2015 00:59

I have the same problem with my 5 year old DD.

Only it's not only clothes, she needs a new bike and doesn't have good enough balance to ride without stabilisers but the 20" bike she needs is too big for them.

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