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Keepswimming123 · 17/02/2015 00:40

I realise this should be in relationships, but I just took off my engagement ringSad feeling so shit now.

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BastardGoDarkly · 17/02/2015 00:42

Oh Bugger, what happened? Brew

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Keepswimming123 · 17/02/2015 00:45

Everything! Nothing dramatic but just game over...my friend just told me to get my ring melted down... I want to cry!

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Keepswimming123 · 17/02/2015 00:46

I need tea and a knock over the head

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Keepswimming123 · 17/02/2015 00:56

And now I've lost it... Oh crap, there goes £1000....

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honeysucklejasmine · 17/02/2015 00:57

Honestly i think you need a good nights sleep. No sensible decision was ever made past midnight. Rest, and have another look at your situation in the morning. Flowers

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whothehellknows · 17/02/2015 00:57

That's shitty. Flowers You do need tea. Why do you need a knock on the head?

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SweetsForMySweet · 17/02/2015 00:58

Sleep on it, you may feel different about it in the morning. Have you spoken to your oh? your friend may mean well but you should have a conversation with your oh before making your final decision. Hope it works out for you whatever the outcome

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whothehellknows · 17/02/2015 00:58

The ring will turn up. Then hang on to it until you've had some time to work through stuff. And when you're calm, you can sell it and take yourself away for a nice weekend...

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Keepswimming123 · 17/02/2015 00:58

The fucking ring has flipped out of my hand and I can't find it anywhere... Actually
Crying

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Keepswimming123 · 17/02/2015 01:01

Thing is, if I am totally honest i don't want to break up with him, I love him to bits... Where the f is my ring???!!???

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Keepswimming123 · 17/02/2015 01:07

Am in a blind panic now...

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BastardGoDarkly · 17/02/2015 01:08

Are you a bit pissed? Seems a tad strange to go from engaged to game over with 'nothing dramatic' happening. Why are you breaking up with him?

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Keepswimming123 · 17/02/2015 01:18

Whoops, I am on my phone,I am not breaking up with him, he's breaking up with me... Sad

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Keepswimming123 · 17/02/2015 01:19

Ps I am not pissed. I am upset.

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Keepswimming123 · 17/02/2015 01:23

Ps the nothing dramatic involves things I would rather not talk about...

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DecaffCoffeeAndRollupsPlease · 17/02/2015 02:07

Were you in a room when the ring fell out of your hand? It'll still be there in the morning, after a cup of tea and a comforting chat with a friend. Look for it tomorrow with a calm head.

Might be worth posting in relationship, people will help you through this, it might be tough but, you will make it through the heartache.

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Keepswimming123 · 17/02/2015 09:54

Thank you decaff. Still no sign of ring. How ironic...

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