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Keepswimming123 Tue 17-Feb-15 00:40:58

I realise this should be in relationships, but I just took off my engagement ringsad feeling so shit now.

BastardGoDarkly Tue 17-Feb-15 00:42:53

Oh Bugger, what happened? brew

Keepswimming123 Tue 17-Feb-15 00:45:20

Everything! Nothing dramatic but just game over...my friend just told me to get my ring melted down... I want to cry!

Keepswimming123 Tue 17-Feb-15 00:46:41

I need tea and a knock over the head

Keepswimming123 Tue 17-Feb-15 00:56:34

And now I've lost it... Oh crap, there goes £1000....

honeysucklejasmine Tue 17-Feb-15 00:57:05

Honestly i think you need a good nights sleep. No sensible decision was ever made past midnight. Rest, and have another look at your situation in the morning. flowers

whothehellknows Tue 17-Feb-15 00:57:14

That's shitty. flowers You do need tea. Why do you need a knock on the head?

SweetsForMySweet Tue 17-Feb-15 00:58:16

Sleep on it, you may feel different about it in the morning. Have you spoken to your oh? your friend may mean well but you should have a conversation with your oh before making your final decision. Hope it works out for you whatever the outcome

whothehellknows Tue 17-Feb-15 00:58:46

The ring will turn up. Then hang on to it until you've had some time to work through stuff. And when you're calm, you can sell it and take yourself away for a nice weekend...

Keepswimming123 Tue 17-Feb-15 00:58:51

The fucking ring has flipped out of my hand and I can't find it anywhere... Actually
Crying

Keepswimming123 Tue 17-Feb-15 01:01:25

Thing is, if I am totally honest i don't want to break up with him, I love him to bits... Where the f is my ring???!!???

Keepswimming123 Tue 17-Feb-15 01:07:13

Am in a blind panic now...

BastardGoDarkly Tue 17-Feb-15 01:08:35

Are you a bit pissed? Seems a tad strange to go from engaged to game over with 'nothing dramatic' happening. Why are you breaking up with him?

Keepswimming123 Tue 17-Feb-15 01:18:03

Whoops, I am on my phone,I am not breaking up with him, he's breaking up with me... sad

Keepswimming123 Tue 17-Feb-15 01:19:20

Ps I am not pissed. I am upset.

Keepswimming123 Tue 17-Feb-15 01:23:27

Ps the nothing dramatic involves things I would rather not talk about...

DecaffCoffeeAndRollupsPlease Tue 17-Feb-15 02:07:41

Were you in a room when the ring fell out of your hand? It'll still be there in the morning, after a cup of tea and a comforting chat with a friend. Look for it tomorrow with a calm head.

Might be worth posting in relationship, people will help you through this, it might be tough but, you will make it through the heartache.

Keepswimming123 Tue 17-Feb-15 09:54:51

Thank you decaff. Still no sign of ring. How ironic...

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