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To be enraged. (well a bit annoyed) by getting a dozen red roses?

(22 Posts)
NollaigShona Sat 14-Feb-15 12:17:06

From my exH. With a card saying "Thinking of you".
He wasn't thinking of me when he was shagging his teenage girlfriend. Nor when he kept a durex in his wallet long time after my hysterectomy. Nor when he wouldn't consider a vasectomy and insisted contraception was my problem.
(Ok the vasectomy maybe he might have a point but he dealt with it very badly)
Well am I?

MrsWolowitz Sat 14-Feb-15 12:18:52

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

ifgrandmahadawilly Sat 14-Feb-15 12:20:39

YANBU. Sounds like you are well rid.

gamerchick Sat 14-Feb-15 12:20:44

Poke one out of the letter box of every house in the street tonight. At least get a chuckle out of it.

OwlinaTree Sat 14-Feb-15 12:21:01

Stick them in an envelope and post them back to him. No stamp.

FuckYouKatieHopkins Sat 14-Feb-15 12:21:29

Take them to a local Nursing Home.

Then send him a truck full of manure to be dumped on his drive with a card saying "thinking of you too"

bigjimsdiamondmine Sat 14-Feb-15 12:22:03

Yanbu. Terrible behavior thinking a few flowers will make up for all that. Just see it for what it is though, he's realized what a fool he was to let you go and wants you back. Doesn't mean he gets what he wants. Onwards and upwards for you!

WorraLiberty Sat 14-Feb-15 12:23:21

Take a pic

Put it on Facebook

Tag his girlfriend

Sit back and be entertained

Tinkerball Sat 14-Feb-15 12:25:58

I like Worras idea! grin

NollaigShona Sat 14-Feb-15 12:37:24

Ooh Worra!
I like your style!

NollaigShona Sat 14-Feb-15 12:38:15

Ha! Manure!

The80sweregreat Sat 14-Feb-15 12:41:45

Do what worra suggested then let us know what happens

JeanSeberg Sat 14-Feb-15 12:43:02

Even better, do the manure AND facebook.

Tisiphone Sat 14-Feb-15 12:43:22

Yanbu. Do what Worra suggests, then take them to a nursing home, or otherwise give them to someone who will get pleasure from them. Unless you think that appearing to 'keep' the flowers gives our ex the idea that you owe him something, in which case, send them back. No note.

Staywithme Sat 14-Feb-15 12:45:54

Worra, I want you on my side in a fight. grin

AwfulBeryl Sat 14-Feb-15 12:49:39

Do what Worra said, and keep us posted. wink
Then do what Katie said, that's a lovely idea.

GooodMythicalMorning Sat 14-Feb-15 12:52:55

Yanbu to be annoyed with him at all. Though keep the flowers. No point getting rid, they wont be around for long anway. Just enjoy them for their prettiness and ignore that their from him.

WorraLiberty Sat 14-Feb-15 12:53:54

I like Katie's idea too

Upload a second pic of you giving them to the nursing home, with the caption "I'm running out of space for all these flowers" grin

antimatter Sat 14-Feb-15 12:54:16

Does he have GF??????

DontKillMyVibe Sat 14-Feb-15 12:55:37

Love Owl's suggestion grin. In reality though I'd probably bin and think what a twat he is whilst being annoyed at his cheek.

GreenPetal94 Sat 14-Feb-15 12:59:47

I'd enjoy the roses, roses are nice and these ones are free. But just keep ignoring him.

MadameJosephine Sat 14-Feb-15 13:02:31

YANBU! I used to get messages from XH on our wedding anniversary saying things like 'happiest day of my life' years after we were divorced. It's really creepy and unnerving as well as rage inducing. I think worra's suggestion is utter genius

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