My husband has been very preoccupied with business, but we have just gone on our first childfree holiday for many years. Nowhere exotic - but a rural part of the UK that we both like.
But he's spent quite a bit of the first day moaning about being cold. It's taken the holiday cottage a while to warm up, but with an additional electric fire on it's been okay. He moaned about it raining when we walked to the pub for a meal. He got fretful about the time it took for the food to arrive, because his blood sugar was getting low and he'd forgotten to eat much during the afternoon. I thought he'd perk up when the food arrived, but - perhaps because he'd had paracetamol on an empty stomach - he complained of feeeling faint. He said he wanted to lie down. The pub was quite a quiet one, so he could lie down along the length of the seating. I asked if he wanted to call a doctor, but he said no Then he wanted me to escort him to the door of the gents.
Although I felt concerned about him I felt frustrated and embarassed too. He'd complained of feeling a bit off earlier, but hadn't said he would rather eat in. He came back from the gents feeling a bit better, and managed to eat some of his food. After a bit I said, 'I bet you've forgotten Valentines haven't you?' And he said, 'Oh is it today?' I said no tomorrow. And he said, no it hadn't registered and he hadn't got me anything, but it was how you were with somebody for 365 days of the year, not just on 1 day that counted wasn't it?
And I just felt so exhausted and so fed up...
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MarianneSolong · 13/02/2015 21:50
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