Dd's class is only one third girls. DD plays with most but not all. The three or four she doesn't play with regularly she still gets on with. It's a nice little bunch. I usually do her birthday party at ours and invite all the girls. There are sometimes a couple of no shows but, having MS, my energy levels don't really suit home parties - takes me a week or so to recover. I decided this year to go for an activity venue. Trouble is I can't bring myself to exclude any of the girls. A couple of them have ubiquitous "We'll turn up or not as we like but won't let the party host know" Mums - including a good pal of Dd's. There's also a newbie factor. The cohort of girls is so small the uninvited would know they are The Uninvited. The price of the venue is reasonable but it starts to pinch once we go towards 10. I plan to be a lot firmer by text with an "If I don't hear from you by such and such a date, there won't be a place for your daughter" as the cut off date draws near. Still, what would you do?
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sparkysparkysparky · 12/02/2015 10:18
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