OH and I have been engaged for some time, we have both been married before and done the big wedding thing.
We can't afford to have a big wedding atm but both feel it's the right time and would like to make the commitment to each other, and we quite fancy just going and doing it on our own, we really want to be married to each other.
Some of our family would be ok and some wouldn't. It would take ages to arrange as we both have siblings who live abroad.
Thing is we also have 6 kids between us (none together) and I think our 3 DDS ESP would be gutted if we did this.
Our friends would be cool.
Has anyone else done this? If so do your kids/family members/friends still speak to you?
I feel really torn.
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Would we BU to Elope?
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Weathergames · 11/02/2015 17:46
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