Husband is on way home and I need some independent perspective:
DH and I have been together 9 years, when we met we both smoked - me socially and selectively, him 10-15 a day. 9 years later, I don't smoke and he continues to smoke the same.
I don't ever mag him to give up but do encourage him to see the health benefits of giving up, not least because he's developed a nasty cough and we now have two children who I would like to actually have a father
A few weeks ago I was looking on our family kitchen calendar and noticed under today was "Stop smoking day 1". I asked him and he said today was national stop smoking day and he was going to give it a go. I said how was he going to try and he said he thought with electronic cigs. Nothing more said.
Last week, DH did nothing workwise. He stayed at home every day and did nothing. Nothing. I said a couple of times, remember next week, you should walk to that shop that sells all the electric cig stuff and he kept saying "yeah I will."
DH does nothing to organise himself, I do everything. He has nothing to think about apart from
His job and his social life. PPI paperwork has been in our hall for 6 months because he hasn't bothered to go to the bank and print a statement.
Today, at 9:30 I phoned and said how was the Non-
And he just bit my head off and said "not good, I didn't get the stuff did I?"
I got annoyed and said "God you just can't organise yourself for anything! Why sm can't you just get organised and plan?" Then I got shitty about even saying he was going to try when he clearly had no intention.
This is now descended into me trying to control homesick is his (and his fathers) stick answer for everything.
Who's being unreasonable?
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ExitStageLeft · 09/02/2015 16:38
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