DP and I are on the verge of splitting up.
He broke the news to me on our 2yr anniversary that he doesn't know if family life is for him. It's a fair comment - he had gone 45 yrs before meeting me without living with a girlfriend. I have a 7 yr old from a previous relationship.
Logistically, it's easy for me. I can afford the rent on our home on my own, I have a good job and a great support network.
What I cannot handle is what is happening now. Moping around a shared space like zombies. No definitive idea of what is going on. I've tried to talk to him, but nada.
AIBU to ask him if/when he's leaving? Our two years have been tough ones: redundancies, life threatening illness, losing homes. I wish I knew what he was thinking.
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Keletubbie · 07/02/2015 19:29
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