My best friend has befriended a man who is about 10 years younger than her, all good. The problem is that he is a heroin addict with serious health problems and I feel he is manipulating my friend.
I am trying to write my concerns without adding in too much bias but am finding it hard. My friend has 'lent' her friend lots of money...she has confided the amount to me and we are talking £1000's...she also buys him food, provides a constant taxi service and is available to talk for him day and night. All this is causing her money worries and I have suggested 'no' is a good response to some of the more outrageous demands requests.
To be fair the man's health problems are real...he has had a triple heart bypass and been hospitalised more than once, and if my friend wasn't supporting him he may well not still be alive.
Its her life and I have never told her, or even thought, the friendship is wrong...she is over 21 and is obviously allowed any friends she likes...but I do feel she is being used.
I should say I have never met the other friend, my only information comes from my friend...but some days he is her only conversation. Am I jealous, too judgemental or are my concerns valid?
Hope it all makes sense.
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Is my friend being used or am I am too judgemental?
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strawberrysalsa · 30/01/2015 13:17
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