Disclaimer: I know that I was judging a random undeserving stranger in the park, and therefore IABU for this alone, but given that we all do this and I'm genuinely just curious to know whether her way is more normal/ better, or mine is and what other people do.
I was in the park the other day with my kids aged 4 and 1.5 My default setting in the park is to let the kids basically get on with it. I stay close by my one year old in case he falls/ hurts himself but other than that, I kind of assume they will play by themselves/ with each other and other kids and don't feel the need to interact constantly with me and I don't need to get or get involved in what htey are doing/ keep up a running commentary for them etc.
There was a woman there yesterday who had kids the same age as mine. SHe was following them everywhere, commenting on every single thing they did, every toy they picked up, praising every tiny little action eg "great picking up the truck!!" "is that a bucket? You've got a bucket? IT's a red bucket..." etc etc. She kept this up constantly for the whole 2 hours we were there. I know that talking to kids is good, and improves their verbal skills etc, but this just felt exhausting for her, and kind of annoying for the kids. So is my style neglectful or is hers OTT? would love to know what others do....
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deliverdaniel · 28/01/2015 19:21
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