AIBU to think that asking your guests to "bring £20 to contribute to the bill" is not acceptable? My daughter came to me asking if I didn't think it weird that she received an invite for a party in a restaurant with precisely that request and smiley face... And I certainly do! I am surprised that anybody would ask such a thing. We have always paid for our children's parties, and when she wanted to take friends to a restaurant last year we limited numbers to her two best friends and paid for them, we didn't invite 9 and asked them to pay for themselves... AIBU to think that if you can't afford it (and they are a well off family, double income, detached house - not short of money!), you don't do it? After all there are loads of ways your kids can celebrate their birthday that are inexpensive...Besides, we looked at the restaurant's menu, and you'd be hard pushed to spend £20 quid there - a pizza, a drink and a dessert are about £12. So my daughter wants to go, bring only £12 and ask to pay her bill separately. Are the extra £8 each for the cake? I think it would be better not to go at all and avoid the whole embarrassing situation. In fact I'd push to avoid this girl altogether in future...so...what do you think? AIBU?
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27/01/2015 22:24
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