This is not meant critically but I am finding my friend very difficult since adopting her DS, who is two.
She constantly rebuffs invitations or suggestions for things we can do citing the adoption as a reason. I understand this, but if you allude to the adoption yourself you are liable to get your head bitten off and I feel as if I am treading on eggshells in terms of language used.
I also find the put downs difficult: my dd1, who is three in march, was having a tantrum and she said 'thank Christ I couldn't have biological children' which I thought was a really unpleasant comment. She also says 'we couldn't have produced such a beautiful child with our genes' which is a strange thing to say.
I can understand feeling defensive and finding it hard but honestly the way she speaks about my and our birth children at times isn't on.
I want to disassociate from her but aibu? It feels rather 'mean girls' even though we are all well into our thirties ...
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exmoormare · 26/01/2015 18:30
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