I don't want to feel hurt, so any tips on ignoring comments like this would be helpful!
I was talking to a colleague today who I don't know very well and she made a remark about a certain prominent feature of my face. (Clue: everyone has one. Some people's are daintier than others.)
I never particularly had an issue with this particular feature although it isn't my favourite. Put it this way, I struggle with self-esteem, as do many people, so in the long list of things that I would change if I could, this particular one wasn't at the top of the list. But I guess if this were Top of the Pops, it's made a new and high entry!
I'm hurt by the comment but it's not the annoyance with her that's the issue (although I was a bit annoyed). I'm worried about my self-esteem taking another battering. How do I stop dwelling on it and how do I stop it becoming another thing to feel down about when Iook in the mirror? I just wish she hadn't said it!
I'm almost 40 and it's hard enough when things start to be not quite as they were to have to start thinking, oh god, there's a whole new other thing for me to worry about / fear that everyone who looks at me is thinking I'm hideous.
NB. For context - am happily married and had enough admirers and satisfying relationships in the past to guess I don't frighten small children too much, but obviously, I'm no danger to Miss World, IYSWIM. I just want to not feel completely hideous.
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To feel hurt when someone made unfavourable comment about my appearance?
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ThanksABunch · 21/01/2015 19:57
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