... so I don't give the next rl commenter a smack?
I am 18wks pg and already looking bloody huge quite large due to the fact that my abdominal muscles separated when I was pg with DS and never fully recovered, so this time round my belly is ballooning at a frankly alarming rate. I am feeling a bit sensitive about it as I'm worried about potential long term damage, being so big already and getting sore and having to take extra care re lifting, exercise etc. I'm only 18wks FFS, how bad will it be by the time I'm full term?!
Unfortunately it seems that the world and his wife think it's OK to make comments about my growing bump expressing disbelief that I'm so big already, am I sure there's just one in there, gosh you're huge, are you REALLY only 18wks, etc etc. I'm already worried and feeling like a big fat lump so these comments are really not helping!
And yes, before anyone says it, I KNOW every person who comments probably means well, wanting to make conversation, trying to make light of it, blah blah blah. I know this, which is why I haven't been rude or short with anyone yet. But AIBU to think that if you want to make a comment, you don't point out to a probably hormonal and quite likely a bit insecure pg women how huge she is? Rude, no?
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guinnessgirl · 20/01/2015 13:44
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