I'm loathe to put a link and give this person a lot of clicks and activity so I'll refrain and just describe.
It's a man describing how he can get any woman because we're all wired genetically to fell for the tricks he knows. And of course he explains it but charges for the truth of it.
It starts off describing how he couldn't get dates:
He sounds like such a stalker with his crush imo. This woman he crushes on tries constantly to let him down but he doesn't get the hint. She even goes so far to say she's under house arrest! Comon, get a clue! Surely you'd know wouldn't you? No he calls/texts her shit loads instead, grabs food, a sexy nighty and sends flowers. He turns up at her house, sees her with what he calls 'joe average' (in comparison to him) and realises she's been trying to get rid of him the whole time.
Should she have been honest with him: hell yes. ButI wonder if she was and in his obsessive crushes he ignored it.
He just doesn't get how bad his behaviour was despite admitting she was shocked and freaked to see him on her doorstep. He sees it as him trying and failing with women because of the women but he admits to being so bloody clingy with his actions. A woman would be called clingy and desperate and the words were applying when I listened to him describing his interactions with his crush. It sounds more like stalking then anything else to me. Freaky.
Then it speaks about how all of us love fifty shades of grey and want an 'obsessive crush'. I agree some women love erotica, a lot more then people think, myself included but the way this guy speaks he's targeting women and sounds so stalkery.
What's worse is several people I know have liked it on facebook and I just have to shake my head.
I can see it maybe getting people into bed but maintaining a relationship? Just really made me feel uncomfortable (which to be fair it stated at the beginning) but I also disagree with it barr possibly getting you laid.
So AIBU to think if you behave as he has above with the constant texting, calling, emailing, sending gifts to someone who rejects you then it's bloody stalking! And that actually maybe it's that behaviour that should have been addressed not trying to manipulating women?
AIBU: Does anyone else agree that they love 50 shades and want something called an obsessive romance? Basically what you get in 50 shades.
I was torn between wondering what woe he is attracting and thinking his behaviour would have had me running if I'd been his crush then and now.
But maybe that's because I like erotica but loathe 50 shades of --shite'' grey.
Without me putting the link does anyone else know who i mean? I'd put the link but I really don't want to give it traffic and I really don't want people as baffled and annoyed as I was.
AIBU?
AIBU to think...seriously???
laughingmyarseoff · 19/01/2015 11:56
I've no idea who this is or if these tactics would work with all women.
I read 50 shades, at first it was exciting but then every sex scene was the same shit. No variety, the erotica I've read has some variety at least. I found myself skipping the sex scenes to read the story bits. It didn't change my sex life, as my husband didn't even know I'd read the book and told me a year later that he'd heard about a book that changed women, probably hoping he'd get daily servicing 
. Told him I'd read it ages ago 
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Op from memore, there's a drip down box next to the FB post which gives you a number if options of which 'I don't want to see this' is one.
When I found myself hitting that option for every other post I decided it was time to quit 
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