DS1 is in Y1 and, like all KS1 children, entitled to free school meals.
By our family standards he's not a particularly fussy eater, but doesn't like rice or pasta - this is not particularly unusual in my opinion as many in my and his dad's family don't eat them either.
Unfortunately, for some reason, despite the school menu being balanced and varied, for some reason on a Monday, all available options are pasta based, which means there is nothing DS1 will eat and on those days he was going hungry.
This was not acceptable to me because on a Monday he does an after school sports club, so he doesn't get picked up until 4:15.
I spoke to his teacher and she said it would be OK to send a packed lunch on those days, so I've been sending a really boring, small pack-up just on a Monday as a backup if there is really absolutely nothing he will eat. The intention bring that he goes for his lunch in the canteen, and then if hungry, has his sandwich at the end of school before his club.
I didn't think this would be a problem as, even if I didn't send a backup sandwich, his dinner would be wasted anyway as he wouldn't bloody eat it!
The school secretary has just left me a message to say this is not acceptable, and he must be either on packed lunches or on school dinners and cannot swap and change between them.
AIBU to do this? And also to tell the school that they need to give feedback to the company providing the school meals that having days where the only options are pasta in various different forms is daft - he can't be the only child who won't eat it!
I think maybe they've been letting him eat his packed lunch instead of going for school dinner, rather than as an emergency 'just in case' scenario.
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RachelWatts · 19/01/2015 11:13
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