Or am I being overly sentimental about something which doesn't really matter?
I'm talking about the generation of families aged between 24 and 45 who can't afford to buy and are stuck in a cycle of private lets which don't often see out their children growing up.
I know that when my Mum was small in the 40s that renting was normal...no working class child that she knew had one home from birth to 18...it just didn't happen.
Then council housing was built on a large scale...and working class families COULD settle...I for one grew up from birth to 23 in the same council house on a lovely estate...and my Mum still lives there.
She and my Dad bought it...and that's where things started to go wrong isn't it? The Right To Buy has ensured that DH and I...we can't get a council house or housing association place as there are hardly any available ever...they've all been bought up.
...and rentals from private LLs are insecure...we can't afford to buy a private home...with a mortgage so have always rented.
My older Dd has lived in 4 homes...granted one of them was for 7 years...and to her that's home even though we had to leave last year when the owner needed to sell. She was 9 when we left.
We're moving abroad to DHs home country where we will be able to buy thanks to a gift from a relative...we could buy here but we both feel that we need to go now as his Dad is unwell.
However...DD1 is ten now...she won't be able to look back and say "That's where my home is..."
Or will she? Where will "home" be to her? And...does it matter?
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To be sad that so many children won't have a "family home" in the future?
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MrsTawdry · 15/01/2015 14:41
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