DD has had some problems with a girl from school being a little bullying/spiteful. We had an issue at Xmas when this girl gave DD a 'present' that she'd actually pinched. That was resolved (I played dumb but returned it to her mum) and I advised DD to distance herself from her.
Things got worse and DD ended up telling me that she didn't want anything to do with this girl. She's been avoiding her at school (same class) and has been 'too busy' to play out of school.
This weekend I found out that another girl (a good friend of DDs) has had similar issues and her mum has put a blanket ban on them playing together at all.
Thing is, that leaves this girl with no-one. Apparently at school she plays with the younger children after too many incidents with kids her own age. But in the village there are very few kids she'd play with and it sounds like she's alienated them all.
Other mum doesn't care, says she bought it on herself (which I agree with in general), but I'm left feeling rather guilty that this child has no friends. DD on the other hand has a close group of 4 girls at school, in the evenings has one girl (the close friend above) and 4 or 5 boys she regularly plays with.
I feel awkward. She came round 3 times this weekend and I covered for DD each time, but later found out what the other mum had done. It seems cruel - but do I really ride roughshod over DD, knowing how unhappy this girl makes her?
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EveDallasRetd · 12/01/2015 12:25
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