DH has a nasty dental abscess.
He has been back and forth to A&E (was in agony and went to get antibiotics in the middle of the night, then had to return as the swelling got extreme - now has had to receive IV antibiotics).
However, all that rolls through my mind are the number of times he has left me high and dry when he should have been helping me when I am unwell. I had orthopaedic surgery a month ago and am still unable to put foot to floor - but he has not cooked a meal or lifted a finger - in the past, he has left me alone with 2 young children right after getting home from the hospital from spinal surgery so he could go away for 5 days.
I know this is not a game of "one-upsmanship" and I am trying to be understanding, but the past is making me really bitter.
Please give me a kick in the hindquarters - I want to be kind, but there is a voice in the back of my mind that keeps whispering "payback's a bitch".
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CallMeExhausted · 04/01/2015 02:02
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