First time poster but long time avid reader...
In summary, recently renewed a long time friendship
with oldest school friend- always kept in touch very
sporadically via email etc over the years but in the
last 6 months we've seen quite a lot of each other
and got much closer again- it's been lovely.
Friend has met SIL twice in total- once at family
event and again at a New Years get together at my
house. They seemed to get on ok but did not
have any in depth conversations. Should
add for clarity that SIL is same age as us and
totally lovely- we get on really well.
Friend sent text this morning saying she had
been talking to SIL on the dreaded facebook
and organised for the three of
us to meet for lunch one weekend in the next few weeks,
and wanting to put a date in place.
I can't really even put my finger on why this bothers
me. SIL has a lot of her own friends who she socialises
with regularly. I am very rarely invited to any events/
Get togethers with SIL and her friends, and nor
would I be expected to be. I guess I just like the
fact that I do have my own friends, all be it a small
number, but close friends none the less.
Friend doesn't really know much about SIL,
and for all she knows we might not even get on
that well socially.
I think my issue is that I like keeping friends and
family separate, if that makes sense. After all, I
can hardly let off steam and have a rant about
DH or MIL in front of SIL...
I guess my question is Aibu to feel a little put
out by this, and if not, how should I deal with it?
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AIBU?
To find this a little irritating?
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butwhiletheresmusicandlaughter · 02/01/2015 11:22
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